Dear Friends,
We received
this email from our colleagues at PFOX (Parents and Friends of
Ex-Gays). Please follow through with your local libraries, and
let us know if you experience any resistance to getting these
titles ordered.
Let your light
shine!
Blessings
and grace,
Dr. Michael
L. Brown,
Director
Please ask
your county, school, or city library to order ex-gay books. Many
public libraries have book order forms on their website which
allow you to request specific books for the libraries to buy.
Most local libraries stock gay books, but not ex-gay books. According
to the American Library Association, libraries cannot support
censorship and a librarian’s professional code requires
them to seek out books that represent a wide range of viewpoints.
Below is a letter from a PFOX Dad on how to ensure that your local
library is not censoring ex-gay books:
Dear Parents
and Friends,
Good day to
you all and thank you for taking the time to read this letter.
It is of critical importance, not only to us as parents and friends,
but to all the families that are affected by SAME SEX ATTRACTION
(SSA) to get involved with helping others.
Since you
are in receipt of this letter, it is most likely that homosexuality
has touched your family in some way. Regardless of when touched
by SSA, the flood of emotions remains real. Can you remember searching
for answers? Do you remember coming up empty handed? Was every
book and website encountered leaving you with an empty feeling
that something is missing?
Recently,
while looking at our public library website for something totally
not related to SSA, my wife pointed out all the pro-gay information
on the local library web site. After some diligent searching,
it became apparent there was little to no information on unwanted
SSA. Material on how homosexuality originates was absent. Any
resources to help people overcome their SAME SEX ATTRACTION were
also absent.
This led me
to do website searches for all the counties in Arizona with almost
identical results. Further website searches on the public libraries
for Boston, San Francisco, and Los Angeles again yielded the same
results. What became apparent is that ex-gay books and resources
have either been eliminated or never included in the libraries.
Fellow parents
and friends, this is our time to stand together in order to assist
other families. You can help by searching your local and school
libraries for ex-gay books and resource material. Most public
libraries have online catalogs on their website where you can
search for books. Once you have determined helpful information
is missing, write the schools, libraries, school boards, and politicians
to alert them to this systematic censorship. Gently point out
that censorship should not be the job of the library, and then
insist that they include ex-gay books such as those listed below.
You must also point out that this material belongs under the classification
of homosexuality. Also, many public libraries have book order
forms on their website which allow you to request specific books
for the libraries to buy.
Below is a
sample of a letter I sent to our local library which resulted
in some positive steps with books ordered within two weeks and
a note that web sites will be added shortly. Feel free to use
it, and then do not forget to follow up.
Best wishes
to all, let’s all get to work. Write back to PFOX with your
results at pfox@pfox.org
Sincerely,
Jose Schwartz
PFOX Dad
___________________________________
(Sample letter
for you to send)
Dear Librarian,
Good day.
The reason for this e-mail is an obvious omission in material
associated with the _______Library System which needs to be addressed
immediately. The health, safety and well being of many people
hinges on getting this situation rectified.
While searching
your library’s online catalog, I could not find many books
about leaving homosexuality or the origins of same sex attractions.
Every day parents of gay children search for answers to their
children’s condition only to be given the same information:
“deal with it” or “they are born that way”.
Neither of these are satisfactory options for the concerned parent.
In addition to the numerous homosexual books which appears on
your library system, your library needs to provide ex-gay books
to everyone seeking it.
Please provide
equal access to all information, including ex-gay books. According
to the American Library Association, libraries cannot support
censorship and a librarian’s professional code requires
them to seek out books that represent a wide range of viewpoints.
Therefore, please order some of the following books for the library:
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Restoring
Sexual Identity by Anne Paulk (Harvest House, 2003) ISBN: 0736911790
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When
Homosexuality Hits Home: What to Do When a Loved One Says They're
Gay by Joe Dallas (Harvest House, 2004) ISBN: 0736912010
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101
Frequently Asked Questions About Homosexuality by Mike Haley
(Harvest House, 2004) ISBN: 0736914706 ISBN-13: 9780736914703
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My
Genes Made Me Do It: A Scientific Look at Sexual Orientation
by Dr. Neil and Briar Whitehead ISBN-10:1563841657 ISBN-13:978-1563841651
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The
Battle for Normality by Gerard J.M. van den Aardweg, Ph.D. ISBN-10:0898706149;
ISBN-13:978-0898706147
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The
Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction by Janelle Hallman ISBN-10:083083429X;
ISBN-13:978-0830834297
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Light
in the Closet: Torah, Homosexuality, and the Power to Change
by Arthur Goldberg ISBN: 0-9631478-8-9
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A
Parent's Guide to Preventing Homosexuality by Joseph and Linda
Nicolosi ISBN:0830823794
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Homosexual
No More by William Consiglio ISBN-10: 0896939359; ISBN-13:978-0896939356
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Desires
in Conflict by Joe Dallas ISBN-10: 0736912118; ISBN-13:978-0736912112
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The
Battle for Normality by Van Den Aardwig ISBN-10: 0898706149;
ISBN-13:978-0898706147
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Alfie's
Home (Children's picture book) by Richard Cohen ISBN: 0963705806
- Homosexuality:
The Politics of Truth by Jeffrey Satinover ISBN-10:080105625X;
ISBN-13: 978-0801056253
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Healing
Homosexuality: Case Stories by Joseph Nicolosi
ISBN-10: 0876683405; ISBN-13: 978-0876683408
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The
Puzzle - Exploring the Puzzle of Male Homosexuality by Louis
A Berman ISBN-10: 0972301313; ISBN-13: 978-0972301312